Fine, I would possibly pay for cuddling if I do not find my family or friends around me when I am really at down time.
It may sound weird, you may feel a little awkward but there are lots of health benefits in cuddling. A good cuddling will boost your oxytocin levels, increase your good hormone, enhance your trust, releases stress and even it reduces your blood pressure. You will be able to feel the actual stress release when you are in the hands of the professional cuddlers.
If the client is not sure about the professional cuddlers, you can clear your doubts before the session starts. The client can just have a casual conversation with their professional cuddlers if something that they are not sure about.
If you have been thinking about a professional cuddler but not sure how to go about it, then here are some guidelines about choosing your professional cuddlers.
What to look for in your professional cuddler
There are some five points that you must look into your professional cuddler before you get into the service.
- Your needs should match the service given by your professional cuddler.
- You must trust them and believe what they are doing.
- You must feel cared for both cuddler or a client.
- You must also feel the rapport and a good connection.
As it comes to personal professional cuddler service, there must be an extra vulnerability involved. Because you are just giving yourself into the hands of another human being. So if any of these points does not match you, then you may feel disappointed or confused.
So here are some steps that may help you determine the good professional cuddler.
Step 1: Decide The service you want
The term “ professional cuddler” has lot of options. It varies from companionship services with a cuddle buddy and relaxation service like spa, energy healing, touch and other coaching or some other therapy.
You have to identify what type of service you are looking for.
If you are a person looking for an inner child healing, then a romantic or erotic tone might make you feel unsafe. However, there are limitations for therapeutic service and there are also places that also allows you to express your sexuality freely. You must make sure what you get is what you needed.
You must consider the cost before going to a professional cuddler. Mostly the professional cuddler service ranges from £ 65.19 per hour. If you think about connecting with your professional cuddler is slightly costly, then it is time to think about what you actually need.
Think about it in a more honest and clear way, like whether it fits you or not?
Step 2: Looking for a right place
Now you have figured out what you want, then it is time for you to search the right place.
A good search starts with googling about “professional cuddling” or even search about “professional cuddler” with the name of your city.
Your next task is to find the company service that offers you what you are looking for. Most cuddling professional service are non sexual, yet there are companies which offer you different services. So make sure about your services.
High professionals are very much focused on the platonic touch and they are properly trained and certified, they hold their professionalism in high standards and care. So I recommend you to search for a highly qualified professional cuddlers.
Step 3: Profile Deciphering
You can come across different profile pictures but certain profile pictures catches your attention. So the ideal professional cuddlers will be less likely to use selfie as a picture. Keeping this in mind, using the one snap of the cuddlers you need to decide whether the cuddlers are safe for you and do they emanate the professional warmth that you needed.
So check the profile of the cuddlers and note the details they mentioned in their profile like compassion, empathy, love, nurturing, healing etc. These words in the profile can give you confident about the cuddlers and just conclude about their profession. You can also find some relevant experience like healing modalities, yoga instructors, massage therapists in their profile. So these information will even help you better to judge the cuddlers.
At the end, you can decide about choosing your professional cuddler.
Step 4: Interview Process
You might have done all the above process in choosing a professional cuddlers but did you know that requesting your cuddler for a session is not as simple as you think. A good professional cuddler will get to you after scheduling the session. This may happen in a phone call, video chat or even meeting in person at a public place.
This time the professional are screening you as a client. It is highly important for them to sort out about what you are looking for and they need to make sure that the service they offer matches your expectations. However, this is also a good time for you to interview them.
After a brief speech with your professional cuddler, you may feel the real potential working relationship. You can ask them any questions you have! You can also ask them about their field experience or how they got into their work. Just enquire about their strengths or what they will be expecting in the session with you. A good professional will be friendly and warm, gets to you well and listens to you and will be equipped to talk to you about their work clearly, even help you put your fears at ease. If you are not ready with the decision about the cuddlers, then just say “ I need some more time to move forward”.
Step 5: Move on or stay on
Finally the moment has come, it is time for you to decide on whether you need time to choose your professional cuddlers.
It can often take time for you to decide your professional cuddlers, get deep connection with them. It can take time to target your expectations and needs. You can try exploring with other professional cuddlers, and enjoy the variety of cuddlers. Take time and decide what is best for you!